Alright so I decide to text 20 second number close from the night before. I know the number is legit and I asked her should I call or text. She said text. Great so I send over a text saying: What kind of trouble are you causing today?

This opened the conversation well and she instantly responded. Every time I would send another text she would instantly respond. I like to mirror the girls response but I was busy and would respond every 3-15 minutes. Make sure if the girl takes 5 minutes to respond you take about 5 minutes to respond or more. This will make you come off as non-needy.

So after a while of texting probably a span of 2 hours I ask her when are we going to hang out. She responds with I work till 8 so whenever after that is fine with me. Now usually I don’t want to come off as needy so I would say something like alright then we will hang out Tuesday night and I did do this with her as well. So tentatively we are going out Tuesday. I wanted to try an experiment as I have had mixed results and just wanted to see what would happen. I ask her what she is doing this evening. She answers with probably just sitting around the house relaxing. When I heard this I took it as an invitation to invite her over to hang out knowing very well it could blow the entire chance with her away. She responded with blah blah I am going to hang with a girlfriend but we should definitely hang out this week. So the story is still out on this one and for now on I will never ask a girl to hang out instantly unless she asks for it.

Now here is where the day gets kinda crazy though. Knowing I will be home alone I just take it easy and start working on some stuff I have to take care of for Monday. My phone rings and it is a number I don’t recognize. Of course my brain is thinking hrmm that might be the girl I met last night calling me. So I answer and sure enough there is that thick accent on the other line. It’s hard to understand her at times and I have to ask her to clarify but yes she is wanting to hang out. At this point it is my duty to get the logistics down on this one. I have no interest in going out so I tell her well we should just hang out at your house or mine and watch a movie. She says she doesn’t have a dvd player so it should be my house. Alright that works for me. She says she doesn’t have a license so I will have to come pick her up. Does this girl have anything hahaha? Now I am kinda taking a chance with this girl. I was drunk and don’t remember exactly what she looked like. I mean I know she wasn’t some huge beast but couldn’t remember the small details. So I get to her place and she walks out and is petite and has a pretty nice little body. She has black curly hair down to her ass. Let’s just say I am pleasantly surprised. So we get back to my place and she picks a dvd to watch. Now just as we are about to start the dvd she makes a comment about how watching a movie with a stranger on a first date is always kinda akward. Hey I agree with you. So as we are watching the dvd I will either pause it or hit mute so we can talk. This seems to work well and at some point she mentions how she is an extremely friendly person or something like that. I give her shit saying well you aren’t that nice you haven’t even came over here and given me a little kiss. She instantly responds with well why don’t you come over here. Hey you don’t have to tell me twice I slide over and we start making out. She is an aggressive kisser uses a lot of tongue which I don’t really like and bites my lip. This only lasts a few seconds but the volume for the movie never makes a sound again. She asks if I can play some music. Well yes I can but we have to go to my room if you want to hear music. So we go to the room and start downloading songs and playing what I have on the computer. She is sitting on my bed and tells me to come sit next to her. I go over and we start making out and well from here you know what happens next. She gave very little LMR and was just saying ohh it’s hard to resist you blah blah. You know making up excuses in her head why it’s ok to sleep with me. So anyways just because I can this girl had the absolute nicest tits I have ever seen in person. Not only were they huge but they were just shaped perfectly and hung perfectly. There is no doubt they were almost a 10. I was impressed.

I want to point out another thing for my benefit and yours. I was brutally honest and forward with this girl. Actually I am always this way with women and it seems to always work. For example during foreplay things kind of died down because of her LMR and she went to smoke. Before she left I told her when she got back she was going to blow me. When she got back into bed she got naked and started blowing me. She told me she liked me being forward like that. I have heard the same thing from every other girl.

Once again a typical Saturday night and we can’t decide where to go. We are pre gaming at my place and time is passing by. Finally it’s almost 11 and we decide it is time to go. But wait we haven’t decided where to go. No problem lets use this screw driver to decide. We will throw it in the air and if it points towards us then we go to Black Finn if not then we go to Zen. So we throw it in the air and it lands on the ground not really pointing towards us or against us. Wait a minute is the handle the pointy side or of head of the screwdriver the pointy side? Alright let’s try this again hahha. Alright so we down our drinks and head out to Black Finn. Now our new motto is no matter what the place is like when we arrive it is the most badass place in the world. It’s almost funny now as my wing will shout this out. So we get there and walk in no cover of course as always. The place is pretty busy and there are definitely some good looking girls in here tonight. We have had excellent nights in here before and the night is progressing not so great at first. Probably about 30 minutes in I run into a couple girls I met a few weeks ago here. One is about 35-40 with a smoking hot body for her age that I kiss and number closed the time before. She gives me a huge hug. Her friend who is a little younger and much better looking is excited and gives me a hug as well. They tell me they are over on the other side of the bar and say stop by. After a while I eventually make my way over there and dance with each of them for a while. I would back off and hang with my wing and open other sets but I would glance over at the younger one every once in a while. Every time I would look over she would give me probably the best eye contact I have ever seen. I mean you can just tell she was into me. I forgot to mention I also kissed her right in front of her friend the night I met them. Now on this night nothing came of this. I did walk up to her and call her on the eye contact telling her that she was way into me. I couldn’t hear jack shit in the bar and she kept getting right at my ear telling me shit. That makes it even worse for me since I clearly have some sort of hearing issue. It would have been cool to know what she was saying but ohh well. If I have ran into them twice it will likely happen again. I am looking back on this now and wondering if she was into me but she had her friend to deal with. If I see her again I will definitely have to isolate her to another location in the bar and see what’s up. She’s pretty hot.

Overall the rest of the night was kinda boring. A ton of sets opened with ease. Not with any magical game mainly just eye contact and saying hello. I need to get my hearing checked or fixed or something because it is so hard to hear for me in the bar. Anyways enough about hearing so it’s getting late and my wing is wanting to leave. Nah it is only 1:30 we are not leaving. I have to figure out how to get him to stay. Alright that is easy let me just open these two hotties. Bam opened them up and started dancing with them. Wait a minute I want my friend to stay, Hey hotties go get crazy on my friend right there. Sure enough one gets in front the other behind and start dancing crazy on him. Either he is really good looking or girls just like it when I tell them to do that. Seems to work almost all the time. So the crazy thing about this is I am certain I could of landed either of these girls. I chose to make my wing happy and guess what. He number closes and then F closes one of the girls that night. The other girl was only marginal and I have of late kinda upped my criteria for who I wanna pull.

So we bounce from these girls and are basically making one more round before we go. I can’t remember the order in which this happened but it went something like this. My wing almost always follows me which is great. As I am making my way to the exit I see a hottie making extreme eye contact with me. When I see this I pretty much run with it and take it as an invitation to open. I am kinda drunk and just get behind her say hello and do a little dance with her. This lasts ohh about 14 seconds because what do I spy on the table. Non other than her cell phone. Yes I pick the phone up dial my number into it and save it as Boyfriend. This certainly appeased me and I got a kick out of it and so did my wing who must have been looking over my shoulder. She takes the phone and instantly calls my phone and tells me her name and asks mine. So this was the quickest number close in my life. We will see if this turns into a flake or a success.

Now this next part either came next or right before the above as I can’t recall. My wing needed to use the restroom so we made our way to the back. This also gave us a chance to walk around a bit more. I am now alone and open two girls who were part of a 10-20 group. I didn’t realize this at the time but whatever. So they open with ease and I am thinking these are Hispanic girls from Brazil or Spain or something. They have light skin and have accents and I am drunk. I say some crazy shit thinking they know salsa and telling them to dance that or something. Well they pull a guy from there group and start dancing with them and I think I take the other one. Well somehow one of their friends is either pulled over or just comes over on her own accord. She is petite with super long curly black hair. Pretty good looking. Turns out they are all from Israel. So I try to number close and she gives some excuse like ohh I don’t have a cell phone blah blah. I know when I am being dissed so I give her shit. Well let’s just say I was wrong about this. She is emphatic about getting my number. She is asking me if I have a pen umm of course I don’t carry a pen I have a phone for that. She walks up to the bartender and gets a pen and takes my number. She asks if I am busy tomorrow and if I have to work. I let her know I don’t have to work and she says alright. I bounce not really thinking much of it.

Before we leave my wing hits up some girl he met that night as we are walking out. This girl can be cute but she looks like she is from the 80’s. Crazy eye make up and a perm? No really a perm it was kinda funny. So as he is talking with her I can’t be bothered with being bored so I open her friend. Her friend while possibly being alright looking was just not my type. I like petite and she was not close to that. Knowing I don’t have any interest in her I just want to experiment. I immediately neg her necklace telling her it’s from the 80’s. Not sure if this was their whole lets look like we are from the 80’s night or what. Who knows maybe the necklace was an up to date fashion item. She does not like this one bit that I said something about her necklace. We talk about whatever and I tell her she has nice teeth. Before I can finish what I wanted to say she says you have nice teeth as well. I noticed that earlier and I am really attracted to guys with nice teeth. Well I finish what I was going to say which was you have really nice teeth are they real? I then stick my hand up to her mouth and say let me see if those are dentures. Alright this was the line with her. She got super pissed and bounced. So the moral of the story here is make damn sure you don’t over neg a girl. On top of that make sure you space your negs out. If they are grouped together you are going to screw up. If you space them you can probably use a few more negs. My next step will be to over neg a girl I find attractive and see if the results are the same. Keep in mind a girl I find more attractive will probably overall feel more attractive and might be able to take negs better. I have used negs on hot girls as openers with great success but it was the only neg of the conversation.

In asking this question I am referring to how good of a time you had and mainly how well you did with the females. Including last night I have gone out a total of 4 nights so far this year. Two of them were extremely lame and the other two were successful. The beauty of writing this is to reflect on what happened so you can learn from your mistakes. What mistakes were made in the nights that were lame and what did you do that made the other nights a success. If you can repeat what caused the successes then in theory you can make every night of going out a success. I used to think if I didn’t get a SNL then the night was not a success. I now know that is far from the actual truth. I no longer even want a SNL. If I pull a girl back and fuck her the same night I met her that really doesn’t say much. To me it only means two things. Either your game is so freaking good that you can do this. Or this girl is a big slut and you don’t want your dick anywhere near her. The latter is most likely the case. The girl you pull back the same night from the bar has probably done this numerous times and is used up. I would way rather meet a girl who throws up some crazy resistance.

So Friday night we go out to ZEN. It is a bar built into a shopping center in the middle of Austin Ranch. Austin Ranch is a master planned community with a ton of apartments within walking distance. As you can imagine there are many locals at this place which is fine since the average age of the apartment dwellers is in the mid/late 20’s. The people who go here probably frequent the place several times a month on average. So me and two friends head over there and are meeting another couple friends there. I always like when there are multiple people going out. It just seems to either build social proof and at least in my head it does.(Bam right off the bat I have a higher level of confidence. This is one of those things that I am reflecting on to always have a good evening.) Before we go out we pregame at my place. We each have two drinks before we go. We pour them strong and each of us has a slight buzz going on. Before we even walk into the place we talk with a 3 set walking in. My friends are yelling and they yell back. I walk up to them and say NO Yelling. Two of the girls are nothing great but one is pretty good looking. I end up number closing the good looking one later on in the venue. Her friends are dancing and she is sitting down in a tall chair. I walk up to her grab her hand and lift her out of her chair. I make her start dancing and having a good time. I have no idea what else I said but she puts her number in my phone. I will say I make a mistake here in my opinion. After I get her number I go back and join my friends. I should of stayed and hung out with her for a while and maybe get to know her friends and her some more. I think the reason I bounced is because I couldn’t hear anything she was saying. I don’t even understand how it was a successful set I guess she had super sonic hearing or something. I ended up calling her on Wednesday of the next week and talked for about 10 minutes. I was pretty shocked it was a legit number. She seemed pretty fun on the phone so I will probably call her again next week. One thing I will point out here. I almost didn’t call this girl. I would go back and forth saying hrmm I really didn’t talk to her that much. I bounced right after I got the number. There is no way she will answer. I don’t wanna leave some gay ass message. Basically I just kept making up excuses why I shouldn’t call. The moral of the story is this. If you are going to be balsy enough to open up a girl who is easily one of the best looking in the joint. Be successful in getting her number. You better at least call the number and attempt to speak with her. Otherwise what is the freaking point? Alright so I just wrote all that for my own benefit. I will no doubt read this again someday and just putting it in writing kind of holds me to this. So what made me finally give in and quit being a puss about calling her? I was driving down the street to help a friend out. As I was driving I just said to myself don’t have regrets. As you can remember in an earlier post I talked about regrets. This is one of those things I don’t want to beat myself up over. I plan on getting many phone numbers in the future. If I start bitching out now I will no doubt bitch out many times in the future and that will certainly be a waste. What happens when I land a super hotties number and I bitch out on calling that. That could have been my future wife for all I know.

So anyways back to the night. We walk in after talking to these girls for like 2 seconds and approach the bar. I kinda take the lead and order us drinks. We do a round of shots and get a drink. As we are at the bar a girl bumps into me. She is with a group of about 6 people. I give her shit about bumping into me and the set opens. I then give another girl shit about being a pro soccer player. I think she said she was a trainer or something and I was like nah you a pro soccer player. Bounced from that set and my buddy somehow opens two girls who are pretty good looking. One is alright but the other is pretty much my type. Brunette with a rocking body. I have this weird mindset and I will be the first to admit it is fucked up. My mindset is hrmm this girl is really hot do I really think I can get her? Then I will bounce back to hell yes I can get this girl I’m the fucking prize here. Always be in the latter state of mind. It is hard to do but you just have to make yourself think this way. Let me tell you the rest of the night I felt this way and I am pretty much certain I could have gotten any girl in this place. I also like the way I handled myself with her. In the past I would give in to a girl I thought was hot. I would lean in to talk to her. Say stupid shit to appease her. Well not anymore. She would ask me where I live. My answer was so fucking stupid. I live in Castle Grayskull. Not sure if she heard me but she later asked me again. All I said then was I already told you. As we were talking I set my finished drink down on a table that had 6 girls sitting there. One of the girls got super pissed and took my drink and set it on the bar behind her. I just sat there laughing I mean geeze you have a really big table what is the problem. So then a little while later I sit another empty drink down on their table. Guess what the girl freaks out again and mumbles some shit. She is on the other side of the table but there is a blonde girl close to me. I start talking to her saying is your friend always so protective of the tables. This opens her up right way. She compliments me on my shirt and says she would of noticed me if I just sat my drink down on the bar. She seemed like a really nice girl but sorry my standards are going up. If it was a few weeks again I would have gamed her more and I’m sure it would have been an easy lay. I eject from her and start talking to the two good looking brunettes again. Since this was right next to them I’m sure they saw the whole thing and that probably just made me look that much better. For the rest of the night I kinda bounce back and forth from the two brunettes to the other side of the bar to hang with some other friends. As I am walking by I notice another brunette checking me out. I mean crazy long eye contact almost an invitation to say hello. I just smile and keep walking. I later open her up after some more eye contact. Her cockblocking friend says she is married. Hrmm ok she might be married but her eyes said otherwise. No problem back to my friends to hang for a bit. After hanging with them is when I walked up to the hottie blonde from the entrance and number close her. I walk back over to the brunettes and on the way open another two set. Hispanic girl is way into me flirting like crazy. It was fun but she just didn’t measure up. At this point brunettes leave and hottie brunette shakes my hand and is really saying a nice goodbye. Why the fuck was I such a dumbass with her. All my friends couldn’t believe I didn’t number close her. I am thinking the same damn thing.

In the short time I have been going out I can remember about 4 girls that I found super attractive that I have opened. All of these opening were successful. There was definitely attraction from both parties. For some reason I have failed in achieving success with these girls. As of right now I know for a fact it is from not staying in the set long enough. I know for a fact I get intimidated. I feel like I won’t be able to maintain a good conversation. I know for a fact my entire game changes with these girls. I know for a fact my game should change a little with these girls. Well actually I don’t know for a fact my game should change with girls that I find super attractive. I don’t know this because I haven’t gotten far enough with them to know this. Ways in which I start making out with a girl at the bar that has worked countless times I haven’t even attempted with these girls. What I need to do is make sure the next time I an successful at opening a super hot girl I maintain the conversation and build rapport just like I would with any other less attractive girls. In addition I need to make sure my body language is correct, I am not leaning in, and I am the fucking prize.

So back to the night it’s getting late and soccer girl starts talking to me. Blah blah whatever I say we should go back to her place. She says no I live with my brother. Umm ok we should go back to my place. She agrees. My friend already has my keys to my car. I always leave the house with an extra key or garage opener incase I leave with a girl. I thought my friends knew I was leaving so we bounced and went back to my place. We get there and start watching TV. My friend drops my car off and the other stops by to pick him up. At this point I am so freaking tired. I don’t give two shits about doing anything with this girl. I have had 9 hours of sleep in the past two days. I say alright lets go to bed. She follows and I offer her some shorts. She takes her clothes off and throws the shorts on and we go to bed. We make out a little and she throws up some LMR. I am almost certain I could have blown through this if I really wanted to. I roll over and freeze her out and pass the fuck out hahahhaha.

So that was the evening. This to me was a successful evening. I feel like I could have gotten any girl in the place. This may very well be my own reality and not the truth. I number closed two girls and pulled one back to my place. I feel like I could have for sure gotten three other numbers in the place. I actually at this point wish I would have just for the fun of it and the experience.