Of everything I have learned up to this point eye contact is by far without a doubt the most important aspect. Alright maybe not the most important part of pick up but a big one. It is amazing how all the sudden you see things differently. Try an experiment the next time you are walking through the mall, down the street, in walmart, just wherever you go. Instead of walking with your head tilted towards the ground walk with your head held high in the direction of whoever will be walking towards you. Now all of the sudden your perspective will change. You will start seeing how people really act in their normal day. Notice how she just looked at you? What did her eyes tell you? Well if she looked to the left or right sorry bro she probably isn’t into you. If she looks down she is shy and might be into you. If she holds your eyes then I would approach as she is almost certainly into you.

Now while I don’t have a lot of day game to write home about I do have some night game in which this works. Now I approach girls just based on eye contact. I want to point something out real quick. Don’t go searching for eye contact. What I mean by that is don’t sit there staring at a girl waiting for her to eventually look your way so you can make eye contact. It is really something that will happen naturally. As I am walking around the bar my eyes might meet up with someone else’s. In the past I would have been a little bitch and looked down or away. Now I just sit there and hold that eye contact until she looks away in some manner or I say Hello. Nowadays it is usually me opening her and going from there if I receive this sort of eye contact. Women perceive guys who look away first as weak. Just remember that last sentence right there the next time you are thinking about breaking eye contact first.

I have this friend who used to go to bars all the time. Now this guy is pretty good looking and definitely had success with women. I used to ask him questions to try to figure out where his success came from. He told me well I will sit there and just hold eye contact with a girl. I will just sit there and keep looking at her. Now back then I would sit there thinking hrmm that is kind of weird I just don’t see that working for you. Now I actually know this guy was right on about that approach. Now don’t take this to the creepy level if you are going to get eye contact at least take it to the next level. If you don’t and you just keep sitting there staring you will eventually come off as some crazy guy.