So me and my wing head up to Black Finn which seems to be our usual stomping ground as of late. The location works well as it’s just a few miles down the road and the floor plan just flows nicely. We get there and always drop a name of someone who works there says to come by so we can get in for free. Yes we do know someone who works there but I am pretty sure this will work if you just remember a bartenders name or something. We walk in grab a shot and a drink walk around and we are both pretty much saying/thinking this place is gay. I mean really there weren’t many good looking girls at all. It was definitely lame. Both me and my wing were saying this and guess what happens. The entire night becomes way lame. Here it is. The new cardinal rule. Never say the place you are at is gay. Instead say this is the most badass place in the world and we are going to have a good evening. So we are walking around and as we are making our way through the crowd a girl walking the other way gives me amazing eye contact. I am certain I could have opened her right there but I chose not to. She was pretty good looking and I know that had an affect on me. As the night progresses I end up walking past this girl again. As I am walking by I maintain direct eye contact with her not looking away one time. As I get right next to her she stops me and puts out her hand introducing herself. I take her hand and spin her around. I normally only spin once but she wanted to spin twice. Somehow we got off balance and she spun about 1.5  times and stopped facing away from me and her ass in my crotch. No problem she had the nicest body in the joint. I am 100% certain the eye contact is how this set opened. Now here is how my wing really fucked up. Instead of staying back he proceeds to start saying some of the gayest shit in the world and really just blows this set. I mean clearly this girl was into me and I guess he got pissed or something I am not really sure. I let this slide we bounce since he was saying gay shit and we proceed to have a shitty night. We later go to the bar to get another round and the girl’s friends come right next to me and order drinks. I open them not evening knowing they are her friends. She later comes up to me and gives me a hug but I proceed to screw it up. She was super drunk at this point anyways.

We then decide this place sucks and go to Sherlock’s. The truth is this place had to be the best place in Addison. Both Sherlock’s and Logan’s were way worse IMO. We went to the bar and ordered another round. As I was walking up a group of 6 girls was standing there and kind of made way so I could approach the bar. Either they were really nice or were trying to open us. I felt it was the latter and started talking to them. The one girl who was talking to me my wing came up and started talking to her as well. Umm dude there are 6 girls here. Talk to one that I am not talking to hahah. Anyways that was fun for about 23 seconds. We bounce from here and check out Logan’s which is about 97% worse than Sherlock’s. We head back over to Sherlock’s and end the night there. Nothing else to talk about except this place sucks and I will be ok with never going there again.

Moral of the story is when you go out and get somewhere make sure that you and your wing(s) are in the correct mindset. Never talk bad about the venue as that will reflect in your attitude and demeanor. If there is potential at the venue then make it happen. If you meet one very attractive girl that night then it was a successful night. Don’t think there has to be 50 good looking women in order for you to have a successful night. Don’t think just because there are a billion good looking dudes in the joint you can’t have a successful night. Just go out one night and see how many guys actually hit on women. You will be surprised to see how low the actual number is.

So we were off to go see a movie. You know just another way to build up some comfort. We get there and the movie is sold out. Geeze how can Sweeny Todd be sold out? Alright so we need to figure out what to do then. We decide to go to uptown to a Japanese place she knows and have a small bite and drinks her treat. We get there and I really like this place. We are at a covered patio and it is super nice outside. We have a good time and decide to leave after a while. We head back to her place and this time she invites me up. So we get there and her place is super nice. I mean it makes my apartment look like shit. It is furnished nicely, has a plasma on the wall, and is pretty large. So we sit down watch some TV and eventually start messing around. Things heat up and we head back to her room. It naturally progresses from here until I run into some LMR. No problem I really enjoy talking to this girl and we have a nice conversation about life and stuff. I can relate to her in so many ways. It’s almost as if we topics off of each other and give each other really good advice. Is this my new shrink?? Alright so I like to give girls a ton of shit. I mean I am always saying crude shit and I eventually say something that pisses this girl off big time. She basically kicks me out of her bed and out of her house. I can’t remember what it was at this point. So I grab my shit and head out.

Wait a minute I am getting day 4 and day 5 confused. This is what you get when you write this a period of time after it happens.

So actually day 4 ended a lot differently then this. Before I go out with this girl I got a call from another girl earlier in the night. She let me know she was going out with her friends and she wanted me to pick her up from the bar at 2:00 Am and take her back to my place. So basically I had two choices here. I could stay and probably F Close NYE Girl. Or I could leave and for sure F Close other girl. I chose the latter of course for the guarantee and after all I did make those plans earlier in the day. I would have been a big douche if I backed out.

So I leave NYE girls place and head back to my area. As I am driving I get a text from her wanting to know why I left etc. She basically said if I would have stayed I would of stayed the night. No problem I will see you tomorrow.

So on the day 2 I set up a day 3 with NYE girl. I decided to take her to Cuba Libra. It is a happening spot in uptown with good food and a chill atmosphere. Another thing I like about it is it has a bar upstairs so I knew we could bounce there and have some drinks if things went well during dinner.

NYE girl is pretty cool and I think would intimidate most guys not by her looks but by her career success. There is no doubt she is pulling in 6 figures and is on top of her career. She is definitely a very cool girl and I can relate to her in many ways. She is very stand offish during dinner but I can tell she is into me.

Since she picked up the tab at Starbucks I go ahead and pay for dinner. Afterwards we step over to the bar for drinks. When we sit down we order drinks and open a tab. As I am about to hand over a card she pulls her Visa out and hands it to the bartender. This was definitely cool of her to do and I was impressed.

One of her ploys was to say how hot so many of these athletes were on TV when we were watching some games at the bar. I know this was a shit test of hers because no one would keep going on like that unless they were testing you. She wanted to see how secure I was with myself. I never got upset by this and just went along with her on it. When I was younger this would have bothered me quite a bit. I look back at times when I was younger and this did piss me off when it would happen. Now it doesn’t bother me at all. I guess I have become much more secure with myself.

Overall the date was rather boring but we were vibing well and got to know each other pretty good. Pulled up to her place she leaned over and kissed me and then left. It was a pretty good kiss actually one of the better ones with her. I think she wanted me to come up but had reservations about inviting a guy into her place without knowing him well enough. Before she leaves I set up a day 4 with her the next night. She calls me on it saying isn’t that against the rules? I let her know well I don’t know what the rules are but I play by my own rules. Society doesn’t dictate when I want to see someone. She likes this and agrees to another date the next night.