This is my first ever Monday night out. I have been trying to get my wing to head up to Martini Park for about a month. He never wants to go out so I never make it out. Finally he agrees to head up there. I had heard from someone that hey had $3 martinis on Mondays so I figured it would be an excellent place to go since women love martinis. Well for whatever reason he is taking his sweet ass time getting ready. I call another guy up and go pick him up and head out there. We get there and the place is dead. I have driven by this place on the weekends and there is a line out the door. I am thoroughly disappointed so we decide to head out to Finn. From here on out Black Finn will be referred to as only Finn. We get up there and while the place is not super busy it has some extremely good looking girls. After a while my usual wing ends up showing up. So it is us three and we are having a good time.
There is a two set of a couple blondes and my wing walks right up and opens the set. I must say lately he is very aggressive and has little reservations on opening girls. It is refreshing to see as he used to seem kind of shy in the past. So he opens the set and motions for me to come over after a few minutes. I walk up and blow this set out of the water. I mean I feel bad this girl got super upset. I use the doppelganger theory on her. Tell her she looks just like some girl I know. I tell her she has unique features on her face. Well I get to her chin and she has the chin like Chevy Chase. She is a good looking girl but probably has LSE. I definitely over neg her as I bring up this chin. I say yes that is a very rare feature and even rarer on a female. Well needless to say she gets pissed and they storm off. My wings both hear this and just start laughing their asses off. Now I had no intention of this happening. I mainly point it out because it just goes to show how delicate negs are. There is a very fine line and if you cross it you are just an ass. While I don’t think my wing was in with the hotter one I do feel bad if I fucked up his set. From the body language reading it from afar I don’t think he was in.
Alright so we head outside since it is so nice outside. We get out there and two girls come up asking for a cigarette. I go on about why don’t you have your cigs in here blah blah and this girl thinks I am a total asshole. Excellent because that is exactly what I want you to think. Because umm you are into me now. She pulls her friend away since I am such a dick. Well they end up coming right back over and I neg the other girl. She has a hat on. I grab the bill and turn it just ever so slightly over. I tell her ahh that looks much better now. Bam all the sudden this girl is into me. They eject and another couple girls take their place. As I am talking to them she comes back over to me and opens me up. Blah blah we talk a bit and her friend comes over and says lets go this guy isn’t even that good looking. She totally blows her friend off and just stays there talking to me saying I have nice teeth blah blah whatever. Well this chick gets nervous or is just cracked out and drops her beer and I guess is so embarrassed she decides to leave. There were a couple other girls around me and I guess she felt pressure or something.
So she leaves and here is my usual wing with two other girls and he wants me to meet them. Hrmm dude where the fuck did you pull these girls from? They are both pretty good looking and I am actually kinda into his target. I guess ever since my ex I just have a different type of girl I like. Now I like girls with crazy ass hair especially if they have an even crazier color in it. Well this girl had a nice figure and that crazy ass hair. But hey you know the rules it’s his target. So he brought these girls over and I just take the conversation over. I can tell the strongest part of my game is with girls that are introduced to me or part of a group. I just seem to be able to pull some good shit out of my ass and they tend to eat it up.
Alright so it turns out these girls are big into gaming. Whoah two good looking girls who sit around and play WOW and first person shooters all the time. That is crazy and I must admit I like that. I used to be a professional gamer so this is cool. I am able to have a really good conversation with them and they are just eating it up. I later find out from one of the girls that the second we start talking about this and I know my shit she basically falls in love. This brings me to a topic I really need to find the answer to.
When you are in a conversation with a girl if you can relate to her on some topic that she is passionate about will this always have the same affect? For example if she is way into cooking and you tell her how you always wanted to just take 9 months off and go to culinary school will she find this very attractive and be into you? The problem is you would either one have to know about everything in the world. Or two you would just have to be an amazing bser and lie your ass off. I really don’t want to incorporate any lies into my game. This honesty stuff is just refreshing and I really don’t want to get away from it. I guess I could go this route just to see the results but would that actually be useful?
Alright so enough with the questions. We end up hanging with these girls the rest of the night. We head inside and grab some drinks and watch people dance around and stuff. I end up making out with this girl and my wing and his girl are just like WTF is going on. I guess they are in shock that she is kissing me. I later hear that this is out of the ordinary for this girl since my wing number closes the other girl. I end up number closing her and was planning on hanging with her that night but my other wing kinda screws this up for me. The girls end up leaving at around 1:15 and I want to leave so I can go hang out with them. My wing is like nah man we have to stay for a while I just want one more drink. Alright man I won’t be selfish get that drink and we will chill for a bit. Well he ends up opening a little hottie and I am not gonna get in the way of that so I let him talk with her up until just about closing. So we finally head out and this girl just isn’t too into the idea of hanging out anymore. I head home and call it a night.
The next day my wing calls and is just sitting there saying dude how the fuck do you make out with these girls. I have seen you kclose so many girls what in the world are you saying to them? Alright now this is another crazy comment coming from a guy who has been with around 200+ girls. I don’t even know how to answer this question for him. He is not part of the game and just acts AFC a lot. For example he might tell a girl she is beautiful or something and I never drop one compliment. Dude when are you gonna learn that shit doesn’t work in night game. I think the way I kclose is I come up with some stuff to talk about that they have never heard. I am a total dick to them as well. I throw out negs and stuff like that. It’s just stuff most guys don’t say to them and they can’t figure it out. Most importantly I escalate when the time is right. If you are doing things correct you just get a feel for when that is. When the time comes I might grab the back of her head and pull her hair. This tends to really spike the BT. They might not be into the idea of their hair being pulled but in that instance they love it. I think I also escalate on the kino which starts to spike BT as well. So it probably turns out to be a mixture of kino and saying crazy shit.
I really need to start recording myself. I would love to have both audio and video. I might start looking into this. It would just suck to watch and listen to nights when you have a bad night. But man the nights that go well would way outweigh the bad ones and just be awesome to see/hear. Talk about instant feedback and calibrating your game.