So how did this finally happen? Over the course of a few weeks I turned this girl into my text message girlfriend. I even told her at some point that is what she was. We would banter back and forth over retarded mundane shit most of which didn’t matter. The important thing was that the conversation continued over this period of time. Never once did I put a needy vibe out there and I would even wait days in between sending texts.
I only had two phone conversations with her in the entire period of time. One was before I went out for a night and just seeing what she was doing. The second conversation was when I was drunk and basically called her around 2am. I was saying some crazy shit and she was actually into it which she later admitted.
At some point maybe a week or so ago she stopped by my place for about 30 minutes. We just bsed on my couch and nothing happened. It was really our rapport stage and possibly some comfort thrown in. After she left she text messaged me asking if I would send her a pic of me so she could show her friend that I was good looking. She later complimented me on my lips. This is where I started to escalate. I asked her if she was a good kisser. She didn’t get cocky here or anything but just said she doesn’t know. She asked if I was and I said well the next time we see each other we will find out.
So fast forward another 10 days or so and I met up with her last night. This wasn’t my intention but me and a bunch of friends headed over to a different bar where I know she usually hangs out. I text her seeing if she is there and of course she is. I finally ran into her and within 5 minutes of seeing her I escalate us to making out. She is way into it and later gets giddy and wants to tell me something. She leans into my ear and says that I am in the top 3 of best kissers. I ask her why only the top 3 and she says she didn’t want to make my head too big. She said she actually can’t remember the other two. I can guarantee this may be one of the single most reasons she came home with me. If you are not a badass kisser here is some quick advice. A lot of girls don’t really like tongue. So don’t introduce tongue until they do. This is the best way to go. You don’t want to be the guy they talk to their girlfriends about who was shoving his tongue down their throat. The girls who like tongue will almost always kiss with their tongue immediately. Mirror her but lead.
At this point it is really just a matter of logistics. She is throwing out that she has four other offers to do stuff. I just play it cool here and tell her to decide. I know she wants to hang out with me it is almost as if she wants to hear that I want to hang with her. So she is throwing out all of these options so I will SOI her. I do and she agrees we should go eat. We head up to the diner and grab breakfast. I don’t pay for her food. I try to get her to buy mine but she said she is broke. After this my wing helps out and jumped on a bomb for me. It was nice of him but totally unnecessary. She was down for taking her friend home and coming back over. Instead the friend went with my wing and she came home with me.
We get to my house and I play it cool for the first few minutes. Take off the shoes, rings, bracelets and she does the same. I grab us some water and we chit chat for 43 seconds. From here I start making out with her for a few minutes in the kitchen and then say alright time for bed. We head into my room and I give her shorts and a t-shirt. This is the one time I left my house without making my bed. Always make your bed before you leave. Always clean your house before you leave. Make your house at least presentable. My bed had clothes all over it. I really wasn’t expecting to pull and that is a bad mindset to have when you are going out. Also carry a condom with you when you go out. Get in the mindset that you are a badass and you will pull.
So we get into bed and start messing around. There is absolutely zero LMR. On top of that I do my usual assholeness with her and she pretty much obeys everything I say. I mean within the first few minutes of kissing I tell her to blow me. She readily complies and goes to town. I have to stop her so we can move onto sex. I think she would have been happy just getting me off with her mouth which is cool but not what she came here for. We proceed to sex and it is marginal at best. I don’t know why I am so picky with these girls. Not that she was a dead fuck by any means I just like when a girl is loud. I like to hear that what I am doing is working well for her. She was pretty quite and this just turns me off. It’s kind of crazy but that might be the most important thing I look for in a girl who I think is good in bed. If I met an amazing girl who was great in every way and then was quite in bed I don’t think I would turn her into my girlfriend. That is how messed up I am about that.
So that is that. I just passed my wing on lays for the year. It feels good to be ahead of a guy who has closed 200 women. I know we have a quite competition going but both of us make mention of it. It will be interesting to see if I can keep the pace up and edge him out for the year. He has a very direct game and gets a lot of phone numbers. Most of which I would wager are flakes.