We all headed up to Finn and it was pretty busy. While I planned on sarging I was mainly there as support for all of the other guys getting into the community. I find that by helping them with the limited knowledge that I have it actually helps me as well. I can hash out some of the knowledge that I have learned and in doing so it helps me know it better.

So one of the guys ends up opening a 3 set. I give him props for doing this. Opening a 3 set and keeping them all occupied is somewhat of a challenge especially for someone rather new to the game. I noticed he opened the set and had it going. I walked over after a few minutes and instead of winging him I chose to do the leader of man approach. I wanted to make him look good for his target so I walked up to him and offered to go grab him a beer. This really makes him look good in front of the group. It shows that someone is coming up to him and getting him a drink. So I got him his beer came back and he introed me to the group. I end up taking over 2 of the girls so he could work on his target. He later found out that he spent too much time with his target and didn’t work on the other girls enough. Basically he communicated too much interest with his target. I tried to give him some pointers to reopen her but I guess it was too late.

I told him if he wasn’t able to close his target I was going to. I didn’t at that point but later in the night we ran into them again. At this point I was in with the two other girls so it made my job much easier. I played around with all three of them. Made them all spin around in a circle. This is kinda hard since I can’t grab all three of their hands. But they complied and all spun around. I bet for an outside observer this looked funny. They then wanted me to do a little spin. Now I hate giving in to anyone’s hoop but I have noticed something from doing this so many times. If you don’t give in you have an astronomically high chance of getting blown out. I don’t know why this is but every time I have done this in the past I usually get blown out. So this time I chose to do a stupid ass ballerina dance. Raising my hands and spinning around. What I have noticed is if you can pull off looking stupid girls actually like it.

In the past I was always so worried about what I look like. And even to this day I am for the most part still worried about this. But as of late I have noticed I get less and less worried about this.

So somehow probably by her choice me and HB50%Japanese mini isolate right in the middle of the 8 set. I think there were about 5 guys from the community right there just chilling trying to figure out what we were doing. I lean back on the railing so it looks like she is gaming me. She is definitely the one who is having to move closer to me and I just stay stationary. She is open to the conversation we are having. I keep it very light and just run cocky/funny with her. I don’t run any routines or anything like that. Just built up attraction and comfort the old fashioned way. I think when I was talking to the other two in the earlier set that built up her interest. This is what the other guy should have done instead of spending all his time with her.

So from here I do my normal number close. All I say is we should hang out sometime. Let me get your number. I then pull my phone out of my pocket and hand it to her. She types the number in and adds her name. A lot of times girls will just type their numbers in and then have you add their name. Thank goodness she added her name because it was a super rare name and a unique spelling. I have never heard her name before since it was Japanese. I of course ask the old question should I call or text. She says nah I don’t like texts unless you are just saying something like ok I am on my way. I ask when I should call and she says whenever.

I decide to go ahead and text this girl anyways. For one I want her to understand that I will text her even if she would rather I call. I wait until the next day to send her a text. I keep it very light and non needy. I don’t ask what she is doing that night or if she wants to go out. I end up cutting the conversation off letting her know I am heading to dinner and I will talk to her later. She is very receptive so I am sure if I pursue this it will lead somewhere.

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