Archive for February, 2008

Disgusted…

Monday, February 18th, 2008

There you are standing at the bar ordering a drink talking to your wing. You turn around and spot a 2 set of females. They are talking amongst themselves like they came here just to do that. In reality this isn’t the case. They want to be opened. They want someone to come up to them and pick them up. Yes I mean pick them up take them to your car and proceed to your place. They want to get fucked.

Alright maybe I am being a little harsh on this statement. Maybe only one of the girls wants to get fucked. Well no both of them want to get fucked. It’s just that one of them has a boyfriend. She is just with her friend out on the town so she can get fucked. I hate that I am sitting here writing this. I really want to find some girl who puts ups 3 weeks of LMR. Why don’t these girls exist? I hate the fact that basically every single girl I have met is a big horror. I mean I bet all the girls I have slept with this year have been with over 30 guys in their lifetime. That is just freaking sick.

I have talked about this with a couple good friends. They tend to differ on how I feel. I mean I think they are ok with a girl who has been with 20 guys or so. Now this is coming from a couple guys who have been with 200 and the other around 100. So maybe their viewpoint is skewed a little. I mean after all a girl who is 26 and lost her virginity at 16 that would only be 2 a year. When you read it like that it doesn’t sound like very many.

So if you want to sleep with a lot of girls you can. Just get really good at game and go to the bars on the weekend. It is sad but if you run some good game and spike their BT there is an excellent chance you will take her home. I myself am disgusted by this. It happened both Friday and Saturday night this past weekend for me. On top of this my game is not that great. I can’t even imagine how often a guy would get laid if he had amazing game.

I’m reading back over what I just wrote. Man it really sounds like I hate women or something. I don’t. I just wish they would keep their pants on. Girls can go out any night of the week and get laid. In most cases even when you run good game it is still their choice if you guys sleep together. In the end she pulls the strings on that decision. That is the main reason it bothers me. Even a girl who doesn’t look good can walk into the bar approach several guys and say you should take me home. Yes she will get laid that night.

All of the girls I have gotten are from night game. I am wondering if things would be different during the day. If I switched over to day game and started going after women that way. I wonder if there would be a higher amount of LMR. I am thinking in my head the answer is no. See when you are at the bar meeting women that is sort of like your first date in a sense. You have a lengthy conversation, throw in some kino, get to know each other a little, etc. Then when you have a day 2 you already know each other a little so things flow much better. The same could be said with day game. You meet a girl and go on your first date. Then you have your second date which is your day 2. You already had that first date so now you guys are comfortable with each other. Bam there is little LMR and she has sex with you on the day 2.

So if you are not getting laid enough it is your own fault. That is my conclusion. There is an unlimited supply of 7’s at your fingertips. Just go find one and take her home. She wants you to.

50% Japanese Number Close…

Sunday, February 17th, 2008

We all headed up to Finn and it was pretty busy. While I planned on sarging I was mainly there as support for all of the other guys getting into the community. I find that by helping them with the limited knowledge that I have it actually helps me as well. I can hash out some of the knowledge that I have learned and in doing so it helps me know it better.

So one of the guys ends up opening a 3 set. I give him props for doing this. Opening a 3 set and keeping them all occupied is somewhat of a challenge especially for someone rather new to the game. I noticed he opened the set and had it going. I walked over after a few minutes and instead of winging him I chose to do the leader of man approach. I wanted to make him look good for his target so I walked up to him and offered to go grab him a beer. This really makes him look good in front of the group. It shows that someone is coming up to him and getting him a drink. So I got him his beer came back and he introed me to the group. I end up taking over 2 of the girls so he could work on his target. He later found out that he spent too much time with his target and didn’t work on the other girls enough. Basically he communicated too much interest with his target. I tried to give him some pointers to reopen her but I guess it was too late.

I told him if he wasn’t able to close his target I was going to. I didn’t at that point but later in the night we ran into them again. At this point I was in with the two other girls so it made my job much easier. I played around with all three of them. Made them all spin around in a circle. This is kinda hard since I can’t grab all three of their hands. But they complied and all spun around. I bet for an outside observer this looked funny. They then wanted me to do a little spin. Now I hate giving in to anyone’s hoop but I have noticed something from doing this so many times. If you don’t give in you have an astronomically high chance of getting blown out. I don’t know why this is but every time I have done this in the past I usually get blown out. So this time I chose to do a stupid ass ballerina dance. Raising my hands and spinning around. What I have noticed is if you can pull off looking stupid girls actually like it.

In the past I was always so worried about what I look like. And even to this day I am for the most part still worried about this. But as of late I have noticed I get less and less worried about this.

So somehow probably by her choice me and HB50%Japanese mini isolate right in the middle of the 8 set. I think there were about 5 guys from the community right there just chilling trying to figure out what we were doing. I lean back on the railing so it looks like she is gaming me. She is definitely the one who is having to move closer to me and I just stay stationary. She is open to the conversation we are having. I keep it very light and just run cocky/funny with her. I don’t run any routines or anything like that. Just built up attraction and comfort the old fashioned way. I think when I was talking to the other two in the earlier set that built up her interest. This is what the other guy should have done instead of spending all his time with her.

So from here I do my normal number close. All I say is we should hang out sometime. Let me get your number. I then pull my phone out of my pocket and hand it to her. She types the number in and adds her name. A lot of times girls will just type their numbers in and then have you add their name. Thank goodness she added her name because it was a super rare name and a unique spelling. I have never heard her name before since it was Japanese. I of course ask the old question should I call or text. She says nah I don’t like texts unless you are just saying something like ok I am on my way. I ask when I should call and she says whenever.

I decide to go ahead and text this girl anyways. For one I want her to understand that I will text her even if she would rather I call. I wait until the next day to send her a text. I keep it very light and non needy. I don’t ask what she is doing that night or if she wants to go out. I end up cutting the conversation off letting her know I am heading to dinner and I will talk to her later. She is very receptive so I am sure if I pursue this it will lead somewhere.

First SNL of the Year…

Sunday, February 17th, 2008

I am actually surprised this my first Same Night Lay. I have had a same night BJ but not a SNL. I know the reason why I was able to pull this girl which I will touch on later. I am actually wrong about this statement. I just remembered that I have had a SNL before. It was back a few years ago well before I was in the community.

Me and a new wing Lion went up to Zen in Austin Ranch. I have had decent success up here before so I feel pretty comfortable here. It is a small place so it tends to get a little crowded. If you can open a few sets pretty much everyone in the place if they so choose can see you. If girls open you everyone has the privilege of seeing that as well. So we head up there and it looks like it will be a good night. As we are walking in I notice a seated two set look our way. My wing has a pretty hilarious outfit on so he is surely to get opened tonight. On top of this he is a good looking guy so if he gets good at the game he will be deadly. On several occasions he was actually opened. On top of that our SNL’s opened us as well. Yes he also pulled a SNL and unfortunately did it on my couch. That really sucks for me.

So we walk in and I make my way to the bar and order some drinks. As I get my drinks we make our way over to the middle of the room. I let my wing know the seated two set is checking us out. He has already noticed this as well. A blonde proximities us and I open her with something. Lion immediately takes over the set and runs some good game on her. He keeps it very cocky/funny with negs. This is a blonde with a decent body and large breasts. She probably thinks she is super good looking because she gets hit on a lot. In reality I would never even date this chick. She is just whatever to me. But the point is in her reality she is hot so negs work perfectly on her. I heard her say several times what are you guys doing? She just had never heard anything like what we were saying.

This was all done right next to the seated two set. After this girl and her friend leaves the seated two set basically opens us and invites us to sit down. Now I get kinda lucky here in my opinion and my wing would agree. He chose to sit with the no where near as good looking girl. I sat down next to the girl that I would consider damn near an 8. For sure a 7.5. This is my rating as I like cute brunette petite girls. Add to the fact that she was probably the best lay of the year and you can probably up her to an 8.

Anyways so my wing is gaming HBEgyptian. She is super petite with a pretty much rock hard body. Not great looking but doable for sure with that body. He plays it super cool and has good body language. He later texts me to eject from the set and like any good wing I readily agree. Before all of this though I definitely worked my target to perfection. Basically it turns out this girl is super competitive. Once I got these juices flowing she was amped up. She started kinoing etc. At one point I told her to play rock paper scissors and I would destroy her. So I said put your hands under the table. She did and so did I. I said alright one two three what do you have. She fell for it and told me she had scissors. I told her I had a rock and she lost. We did it again but I accused her of cheating since she told me to tell her what I had first. Nah I am not gonna fall for my own trick sweetheart.

From here there was just really good banter. She kept thinking she would destroy me at everything in the world. I let her know this just wasn’t the case. I told her we should go bowling and I would smoke her. She acted like she was a professional bowler. So I said well we should go ahead and go tomorrow and put a wager on it. We wagered $100 so I can’t wait to take her money tomorrow. I have averaged in league as high as 218. This was also how I number closed. I got her number so we could set up bowling tomorrow. This heated argument went on forever since it was fun for us. It was our form of flirting if you will. At some point I had her take out her phone so I could call her. That way she had my phone incase I pussed out tomorrow on our bet she could send me a text calling me a pussy. This single move right here is what got me laid this evening/morning.

After all of this and she was into me I decided it was time to eject since my wing wanted to go work some other women. We took off and said we were going to the bar to get a drink. We never did get another drink we just went and talked to other women. I don’t know if our previous set witnessed this but I am sure they did.

So a little while later this girl texts me saying they are going to another bar and we should meet them there. I really didn’t want to leave but the two times in the past that a girl has called me up and said meet me somewhere I have gotten laid. So I pretty much said hey we are going to the other bar so I can see what happens. We get there and this other bar pretty much blows goats. I am not even sure if I saw any good looking girls in this place. It was filled to the brim with guys though. So we get there and actually beat them there since they got lost. They finally showed up and she initiated kino immediately. I didn’t want to over do kino so I really just mirrored her kino level. If she kinoed I would kino back.

Since my wing was sorta keeping HBEgyptian occupied we eventually worked out the logistics. The plan was for all of us to head back to my place. They agreed but no one was budging from the bar. I had to eventually grab my targets hand and just start walking out of the bar. Everyone else followed suit. As we are heading out of the bar I knew how important it was that me and my wing don’t drive together. I made sure that my target rode with me and he drove the other girl’s car so they were together. As we get into my car I finally kiss close my target. She wasn’t receptive to it at all in any part of the sarge. I tried once super early on with Mystery’s kiss close. Then later with no lines since I wasn’t going to use it twice. Finally in the car she was down and we kissed several more times at lights and stuff on the way home. One very super crazy important note here. As we were kissing in my car the first time I was the one to end the makeout. She could not believe I was the first to back away. This move raised her BT through the roof. She was going on that no one had ever done that to her. Cool now I know exactly how to push your buttons when we get to my place.

We get there and everyone is just chilling in my kitchen having drinks. They are all chit chatting and I am kinda just hanging back letting everyone run their mouths. My girl is rubbing on me and stuff so I know I don’t have to work very hard right now. Finally as everyone seems to be getting bored they are trying to figure out what to do. I just grab my girls hand and start walking her back to my room. Her friend starts throwing up some lame ass objections but I finally get her back there. Now for the past two nights I have made a mistake. I have left the house with clothes all over my bed and it a complete disaster. I usually make sure my room is clean and the bed is made. I can’t believe I pulled two lays in the last two nights with my room being a wreck. Anyways this girl is OCD or something and says that we must make the bed. Nah you must make the bed go ahead. She complies and makes the bed. We lay down and start making out. Not a couple minutes later her friend is knocking at the door. I leave the room and she whispers something into my girls ear. She leaves I go back in shut the door and go lay on the bed. The first words out of her mouth are nothing is going to happen. I say nope nothing is going to happen except us kissing like we were. She is totally into this and then bam out of no where my belt is coming off pants unzipped and her hand on my dick. Now this is the kind of girl I like. I can’t tell you how many times I have to grab a girls hand and have her do this. I like how forward this girl is.

I later tell her to put her mouth down there and she gets pissed. This girl does not like people telling her what to do. She says I was about to until you said that. So we start making out some more I throw her on top of me and just a couple minutes later she is blowing me. She is pretty good and swallows. I can tell she loves giving head. She didn’t want to stop but you know how it is right after you cum you are so sensitive you just can’t take it anymore. This girl didn’t want to stop and I had to literally remove her mouth from my cock. Not 5 minutes later this girl was back down there blowing me again. It was the craziest thing I have never experienced something like that before.

After this it is just a bunch of making out and me keeping her away from my dick. I know this is pushing her buttons so I am running it like crazy. She just can’t figure out how I am not letting her do what she wants. In addition to this I try probably a dozen times to get down her pants and rub on her clit. She stops me every time. This is by far the most LMR I have ever seen. I know she wants it and if I do everything correct she is down for getting naked.

So this is how I finally got her naked. At some point we stand up and are making out. It was a point when she was ready to leave. We are making out and I throw her onto the bed where I am right at the edge standing up. I go in and unbutton her pants. She lets me so I go ahead and start taking them down. I get them half way down and she pulls them back up. So right here I know for certain if I play it correct we are fucking. So I go in and start kissing her trying to raise her level up. She is very receptive but just won’t let the pants come down. She stands up again ready to leave. As we are headed for the door I grab her and throw her up against the wall. She loves this as I know this girl likes it ruff. From here things start going a little better. I start to rub her puss and she is liking it. I get her pants half way down again and then she pulls them back up. At this point I am getting a little annoyed. I guess this was just her game so I’m like fuck this grab her and throw her onto the bed. After this things got much easier. Her pants this time came right off and from here you can guess the rest. It was pretty good and easily either the best or second best of the year.

Freeze outs definitely worked on this girl. They were all minor but worked well. She would immediately re initiate if I even just turned on my back and stopped making out with her. I would do all sorts of stuff like this and she would just be in shock. No one has ever done that to me. She would make comments like that over and over. She would also say that she never does what anyone tells her. By the end of the night she was saying stuff like why am I doing what you are telling me. Pretty cool how if you control the interactions she eventually breaks down.

20 Second Number Close Turns Into FClose…

Saturday, February 16th, 2008

So how did this finally happen? Over the course of a few weeks I turned this girl into my text message girlfriend. I even told her at some point that is what she was. We would banter back and forth over retarded mundane shit most of which didn’t matter. The important thing was that the conversation continued over this period of time. Never once did I put a needy vibe out there and I would even wait days in between sending texts.

I only had two phone conversations with her in the entire period of time. One was before I went out for a night and just seeing what she was doing. The second conversation was when I was drunk and basically called her around 2am. I was saying some crazy shit and she was actually into it which she later admitted.

At some point maybe a week or so ago she stopped by my place for about 30 minutes. We just bsed on my couch and nothing happened. It was really our rapport stage and possibly some comfort thrown in. After she left she text messaged me asking if I would send her a pic of me so she could show her friend that I was good looking. She later complimented me on my lips. This is where I started to escalate. I asked her if she was a good kisser. She didn’t get cocky here or anything but just said she doesn’t know. She asked if I was and I said well the next time we see each other we will find out.

So fast forward another 10 days or so and I met up with her last night. This wasn’t my intention but me and a bunch of friends headed over to a different bar where I know she usually hangs out. I text her seeing if she is there and of course she is. I finally ran into her and within 5 minutes of seeing her I escalate us to making out. She is way into it and later gets giddy and wants to tell me something. She leans into my ear and says that I am in the top 3 of best kissers. I ask her why only the top 3 and she says she didn’t want to make my head too big. She said she actually can’t remember the other two. I can guarantee this may be one of the single most reasons she came home with me. If you are not a badass kisser here is some quick advice. A lot of girls don’t really like tongue. So don’t introduce tongue until they do. This is the best way to go. You don’t want to be the guy they talk to their girlfriends about who was shoving his tongue down their throat. The girls who like tongue will almost always kiss with their tongue immediately. Mirror her but lead.

At this point it is really just a matter of logistics. She is throwing out that she has four other offers to do stuff. I just play it cool here and tell her to decide. I know she wants to hang out with me it is almost as if she wants to hear that I want to hang with her. So she is throwing out all of these options so I will SOI her. I do and she agrees we should go eat. We head up to the diner and grab breakfast. I don’t pay for her food. I try to get her to buy mine but she said she is broke. After this my wing helps out and jumped on a bomb for me. It was nice of him but totally unnecessary. She was down for taking her friend home and coming back over. Instead the friend went with my wing and she came home with me.

We get to my house and I play it cool for the first few minutes. Take off the shoes, rings, bracelets and she does the same. I grab us some water and we chit chat for 43 seconds. From here I start making out with her for a few minutes in the kitchen and then say alright time for bed. We head into my room and I give her shorts and a t-shirt. This is the one time I left my house without making my bed. Always make your bed before you leave. Always clean your house before you leave. Make your house at least presentable. My bed had clothes all over it. I really wasn’t expecting to pull and that is a bad mindset to have when you are going out. Also carry a condom with you when you go out. Get in the mindset that you are a badass and you will pull.

So we get into bed and start messing around. There is absolutely zero LMR. On top of that I do my usual assholeness with her and she pretty much obeys everything I say. I mean within the first few minutes of kissing I tell her to blow me. She readily complies and goes to town. I have to stop her so we can move onto sex. I think she would have been happy just getting me off with her mouth which is cool but not what she came here for. We proceed to sex and it is marginal at best. I don’t know why I am so picky with these girls. Not that she was a dead fuck by any means I just like when a girl is loud. I like to hear that what I am doing is working well for her. She was pretty quite and this just turns me off. It’s kind of crazy but that might be the most important thing I look for in a girl who I think is good in bed. If I met an amazing girl who was great in every way and then was quite in bed I don’t think I would turn her into my girlfriend. That is how messed up I am about that.

So that is that. I just passed my wing on lays for the year. It feels good to be ahead of a guy who has closed 200 women. I know we have a quite competition going but both of us make mention of it. It will be interesting to see if I can keep the pace up and edge him out for the year. He has a very direct game and gets a lot of phone numbers. Most of which I would wager are flakes.

So Why Did I Push Her Away…

Saturday, February 16th, 2008
HBGamergirl just left my house. She was very upset. We had just gone to grab dinner and we got into some conversation. She just can’t understand how I want to see other women. Not that we are serious or anything but she would clearly like it that way. So at dinner I told her it would be in her best interest to never talk to me again. I told her she was going to end up getting hurt. So why in the world would I do this? Well I actually kind of liked this girl even know she was pretty weird. I didn’t like her in the way that I wanted to start anything serious with her. I liked her enough though that she is the first person who has actually met my friends. I have not introduced any other girl to any of my friends. She met almost every single one of them and spent a few hours with my best friend and his girl. So on that level she was definitely cool enough to hang with them and be introduced.

I knew I should have LJBFed this girl. From the beginning I knew she was a cool girl and I should just hang with her on a different level. I think before I amped it up this was a possibility. I have never actually just had a girl who was my friend. Things always escalated to another level. Even the first night we met this happened but I think I could have turned it around.

My honesty with these girls might be just a little over the top. What sealed the deal for her was when I told her she never had a chance with me. I mean maybe here I should have told her hey I can’t tell the future. But if I know deep down that there is like 1% chance of that happening shouldn’t I stick with my plan of brutal honesty?

So I’m sitting here and I am actually pretty upset. This is the first time I have felt any emotions like this over some girl I met. We had plans to go shopping and probably a movie tomorrow. She is just super cool to hang around with even if we are not sleeping together.

Now I have to figure out if I just go ahead and do the right thing and let her go. Or go ahead and try to start it up again with her in the near future. This girl was so into me it was just crazy. She would tell me how all she does is sit there and talk about me to her friends. All the crazy shit I would tell her she would repeat to her friend who would just sit there in awe.

I hope I do the right thing and sit idly on this one and not initiate conversation with her again. She said she was going to delete my number from her phone. I think in the end that is probably the best thing that can happen. I really don’t want to hurt these girls. A clean break early on is probably the best thing.

Just to play devil’s advocate I want to mention the other side of my brain on this subject. What if hanging out with me is the best thing for this girl. I mean I am not like anyone she has ever dated. Maybe getting a taste of what she clearly likes so much is good for her. I mean if I can rub some stuff off on her then the next douche bag who comes along and would really screw her over she can avoid. I don’t know I really need to sit down and figure out how to move forward with these girls in the future. I need to figure out what I really think is best for them. Or do I just need to figure out what is best for me?

I guess it is human nature to want some form of companionship. I know that is what I was seeking from her. I wasn’t just in it for the sex with her. She was a good time to go out with and do mundane stuff that you would do with your girlfriend. I choose that kind of stuff over going out to the bars any day of the week.

Just another mystery I will need to figure out on my way to my goals with this stuff.