Does the perfect girl exist? I personally think she does. She may not be perfect for you but in my eyes she is perfect. I mean after all God has made some of the most perfect things you could imagine. We have all seen that amazing sunset. Some of us who have traveled have seen some of the most magnificent views, waterfalls, oceans, beaches, mountains, etc. So then in all likelihood he made the perfect girl as well. The truth is most people settle without finding her. Even in my last relationship I would do the same thing. I felt like I was settling even though she was pretty badass.
I have this huge imperfection myself. I will find flaws in any girl that I meet. I know everyone does this. But I take it to the extreme. I mean a girl could do something that is so minute and I will hate her for it. Or she could have the tiniest imperfection and I will blow it up in my head as the biggest flaw on earth. Multiply that by several or many of these tiny little flaws and you see where I have problems finding the right girl.
I hate this flaw that I have. For the most part is unfair for the girls. But ultimately it will be unfair for me as there is a good chance I will never find her. I will either end up alone or disappointed with my significant other. Those are two fates I don’t even want to think about but they are staring me down. They are looking into my soul and ripping my heart out of my chest.
If I were to ever seek the guidance of a therapist this is the one subject I would talk about. I think I have to wrap my head around the fact that everyone has flaws. You just have to be able to look past some of these flaws and accept her for who she is. I mean for real no one is perfect. You could encounter a million different girls and they will all have flaws. Let this fact marinate with you for a while. Let it sit on your brain for the rest of your life and you might just end up being happy.
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