I have been thinking about the differences between sober me and tipsy me. If you have read anything I have written you know my game is 100 times better when I am tipsy. The first thing I have come upon being a huge difference is being BOLD. When I am tipsy I have zero fear, zero doubt, I don’t think I just react without delay.
I remember back when I first started going out when I became newly single. I had just a very minor amount of knowledge back then on PU. One thing I certainly lacked was the art of holding eye contact. I was making my way around the center bar at Carson’s. I noticed this super hot Latino girl. She had a sparkely form fitting dress on and just looked amazing. She looks up at me as I am walking by with these huge puppy dog eyes. I held eye contact for maybe 2 seconds and looked away like a little bitch and kept walking. She gave me an AI and I screwed up. Do you know why? Because I was scared. I wasn’t prepared. Now I would walk right up to her and neg her instantly if I am given eye contact like that. I later gave her proximity for a long time trying to build up enough courage to open her. The courage never came and what turned into countless possibilities with her turned into nothing. And even if I did build up the confidence to approach it was almost pointless by this point. Women know when you are hanging around trying to approach them. They think very little of you by this point.
Fast forward to about a month ago. I definitely had my quota of enough alcohol where I was now Bold. I had absolutely zero timidness in my body. I see two hotties standing at the bar. I am at point A and they are at point B. I don’t go to point c, I don’t stand around, and I make my way over to point B without hesitation and open these ladies. And guess what happens they open me right back. I then proceed to Kclose and a #close.
Women of all people can smell fear. If you are timid at all on your approach they will view you as weak. Even if your game is weak they will have much more respect for you since you went right up to them without fear. Now I know this is harder said then done. You bet it is. You want to have time to think of an opener. Then how are you going to transition. Wait you want a neg so let’s examine her outfit and figure that out beforehand. Remove all of that from your brain. Go in with zero thought and just approach. You’re a very smart individual. You will react on your feet and the set will go well. Even if it doesn’t know that you very well might have mastered the hardest part of the sarge.
You were Bold.