I’m gonna tell you a story. For those of you who don’t know I am 30 years old. I guess I have had decent success with women over the years. I have mainly had girlfriends since I was 18. In fact over those 12 years I was probably in a relationship for at least 8-9 of those years. During the times I didn’t have a girlfriend I was a huge hermit. I didn’t get laid. I didn’t even talk to girls. I never went out to a bar or anything. Hell just to give you an idea I didn’t get drunk not one time until about the age of 26.
Here is the thing though. If I went somewhere during the day I would see plenty of beautiful women. I would see someone I thought was worthy of talking to on a daily occurrence. Did I ever talk to a single one? Nope sure didn’t. The only reason I had my last girlfriend was because she just kept turning around staring at me. After about 3 times I was nervous as hell but I finally went up and started talking to her. She chose me. What a fucking gay ass statement. She chose me.
I am just now after being in the game for 6 months or so really starting to choose my own targets. I mean yeah so I have chosen a few during the last 6 months but most of them I would say chose me for whatever reason. The point I am trying to make is learn from my mistakes. I could have met so many women some of which might have been amazing. I could have met these women if I just opened my mouth and said HI.
Next time you see a girl you want to meet just open your mouth and say anything. You might be thanking your lucky stars you did. Even if it doesn’t go well I know one thing. You certainly won’t be pissed off at yourself that you didn’t talk to that girl.