I am starting to wonder is having all these options really a good thing. Think of your average guy for a moment. He is capable of getting a few women. Basically he has very little choices. Sometimes he gets lucky and finds an awesome girl but for the most part he just has to settle. Now I know those options suck but do they really?

He may only have a few options however he can easily accept one of his available choices. I consider him a lucky person.

I have a lot of options. I have a lot of choices. And either by nature or because of this fact I am overly picky, I have no interest in settling. But with that I open myself up to risk. Not in that I won’t get laid or have dates or get numbers. But in the fact that I might not ever find the perfect girl. I might just keep passing on all these girls thinking the right one is just around the corner. This very well could be correct but I would say the odds are better that it won’t happen.

Still knowing the odds are stacked against me I just can’t make myself settle. I really do need to see what is around the next bend.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day

Me and a few friends have planned on going somewhere lately. You know get out away from town for a while and just chill. In fact we have been talking about going on a trip for the entire summer. It just never came to fruition until now.

I have been to New Orleans before but I was a dork back then. We had a hotel literally right on Bourbon Street. It was super nice and would have been so easy to pull back to. I even got hit on by a couple girls who were super forward and I was kind of a homo.

It will be very nice to have a rematch with Orleans and see what my game can do there. Other than that I really only care about having a good time, partying, and sightseeing. Well that and relaxing of course. I am a bit stressed out right now with this crazy ass economy so I will be happy that I can clear my mind for a few days and come back refreshed and sort out my future in real estate.

Hopefully when I get back I won’t be so lazy that I don’t write up a post on it.

Have a Nice Weekend

I walk through the front door. I can picture it clearly even though it isn’t reality. There she is cooking dinner in the kitchen. Our eyes meet, just for a moment yet that is all that is needed. I approach and wrap my arm around the small of her back. Our lips lock and passion is instant. You can feel it run through every inch of your body.

I have wondered lately why I haven’t had any real connection with any girl. I thought mainly it was them. They were lacking in one way or another and maybe they were (They Were). But what was really lacking was my passion. I had none towards them. See I always knew these girls were nothing to me. They were nothing but a warm body to help me cope. Help me forget about her.

I often wonder and lately even more so if I will never find someone I can like. Or if I should just give it up and go back to her. I have had the option now for many months but keep passing. I just feel like there is more out there. More life to live on my own. More relationships to experience. Yet if I keep thinking this way I don’t see how I will ever build another other relationship of substance. I just don’t see how I will let myself get wrapped up with another girl.

I don’t know the future. I have no interest in trying to guess what it will be. I have things I would like to achieve and see happen. Other than that I will go with the flow. Let the wind set my sails.

This past Saturday arrives and I really have no interest in going out. In fact I just want to chill with the ex maybe go see a movie or relax around the house. I give her a call that afternoon and get nothing but anger on the other end of the phone. See she got rear ended on Thursday or Friday. I didn’t realize she was in the car I thought it just happened in the parking lot and she was standing outside the car when the guy hit her. That wasn’t the case at all. She was actually in a decent amount of pain and was on medication. Since I didn’t check up on her she was super pissed at me. So naturally she had no interest in hanging out with me that night.

Well now I certainly didn’t want to stay home. I start setting up a game plan and gather a few friends to go hit up some different venues in uptown. Ohh and did I mention I got some bad news that day. I just got word that a couple who were buying one of my houses was no longer able to get financing. So another deal has fallen through. AWESOME. So I am in a pretty horrible mood and let my friends know that I will be getting drunk.

We all hit up Loon and I have a couple drinks. Wait scratch that I had 1 and 1/2 drinks as I passed the second one off to Bull Run. I had little to eat and was already feeling the effects of those crazy strong drinks. After bsing for a while we decide to go check out Republic. We get there just after eleven and the place is probably the deadest I have ever seen it. Quickly we are trying to figure out what to do and where to go. Well getting a rather large group to make a decision sometimes takes a while. And in this case it took longer than I was willing to wait without another drink. So I order one from the main bar and start talking to the bartender. We are both in awe as to how dead this place is. I then realize that a bartender I know is working outside so I go talk to him for a while. On the way back in to close my tab inside I spot this crazy hot blonde. She is petite and just straight up my style. We make some amazing eye contact and I just walk right by her. I let everyone know we should go outside as I know the bartender out there. On the way back out she opens me.

HB: Hey do you like to cuddle?
PC: No I hate cuddling. In fact I am an asshole. I like to get done and push the girl to the other side of the bed.
HB: Haha yeah I hate cuddling. I am also an asshole.
PC: Is that your best pickup line?
HB: No we were just having a debate on the subject and wanted to know what you thought.
PC: You mean you wanted to know what I thought.
HB: Yeah

I turn around and walk outside. She is so fine. I get outside open my tab order a drink and tell the bartender we should all do shots. He pours one for me and him and for Alphamo and El Fenix as well. I once again have to pass over my crown and sprite to Bull Run as I am quickly getting hammered. It is coming on fast and that yeager bomb didn’t help. I spot a two set behind me and open without hesitation. These girls are nothing but one is from South America somewhere. I can’t recall what country but that made her at least decent. She kept trying to talk to me and grabbing my tie and shit. I just kept ignoring her mainly because I was just about drunk and really couldn’t hear what she was saying. Another yeager bomb gets passed my way. I can’t be rude I mean it’s free after all so I down it.

Slurring words? Check
Staggering? Check
Running horrible Game? Check
Can’t remember what you just said? Check

I eject from the set and start chilling with my friends again. Then bam there is that super hot blonde walking up to me. I have no idea what she said to me but what I said was. Hey what is your number? We are going to hang out sometime. She is so freaking flattered that I didn’t beat around the bush. She loves my aggressive confident style. She tells me her number. Ohh wait here is her gay super protective friend trying to cock block me. I couldn’t tell right away that he was gay I was like 50/50. I figured either this guy is gay or he is dating her. Either way he hates the fact that I am hitting on his girl. I blow the guy off in the nicest way I can. Who am I kidding I ignore the shit outta him. I continue to talk with this blonde. I don’t know her name or anything. I just want her number. I type it in and show it to her. Fuck I typed it in wrong. She then asks my number and says her name. The gay guy repeats it to me as they are walking off. At this point I figure well she might have my number she might not. She might call she might not. Ohh well that is what you get for being drunk.

Ohh wait she just texted me as I am contemplating this and tells me her name. I instantly keep the conversation going over text for the next two hours. She is from Ft. Worth so she doesn’t know the area and doesn’t know how to get to where I am but I can tell she would like to.

I end up waking up early the next morning and figure hrmm this is a good time to send her a text. So around 10 AM I shoot a text over. She responds instantly and from here it is just easy. The conversation flows and she is definitely interested. She wants to know what I will be doing today. I tell her I have no idea but later this evening I will be taking her out. She tells me how she loves my confidence but she has to take an online test for her master’s degree. She asks what I am doing Monday and I tell her. I then say that she will be joining me. She says she will try her best and tells me to call her the next day.

So I give her a call early that afternoon and set everything up. I think it is so cool that she is going to drive all the way over here to go out with me.

She gets to my place and I initially screw up. If I remember correctly I didn’t kino at all. No hand shake. No hug. No side hug. Nothing. I also screwed up in the fact that I didn’t show her around my house. We didn’t even get past the entry way. I grab my keys and we hop in my car. I didn’t open her car door even though I planned on it. I am still mixed on if this is a good rule of thumb. To open the door or not?

On the ride to Finn I am already a little upset with myself. I have already screwed up in ways that I know are wrong. I maybe screwed up on the not opening the car door. Luckily the conversation flows very naturally the entire way there. We get to Finn and the place is pretty dead. But that is alright because all I care about is having a few drinks with her and building some comfort and rapport. We grab a seat on the patio and start chatting. I feel like attraction is already there. I am not 100% certain but I believe I am correct. So when I sit down I purposely sit across from her where our feet are basically pointing towards each other. This allows for good eye contact and the possibility of touch if we so choose. I also do it so I can read her body language and facial expressions. I feel like you can learn so much by facial expressions. I notice so many IOI’s that really let me evaluate if I need to change course or accelerate in some manner during the night.

We chat and chat and drink and do some shots and are having a good time. I make some SOI’s and she does as well. But never about her looks. About stuff that she believes to be important. About things that she has done in her life that she is happy about. About stuff that I am actually really impressed by. Her success really is impressive and I find myself more attracted to her. Yeah she is hot but this girl has her shit together. After a while I have to make a choice. We could do a few more shots and have a couple more drinks but we would both be drunk. I even make the comment that if we get drunk we will have to take a cab home and she will have to take me back in the morning. She says that is just fine I am already too drunk to drive home. I weigh my options and make a comment that I already know the answer to. I ask her if she brought her bathing suit. Of course she didn’t why in the world would she. She goes wow you have a pool? Yep sure do. Do you have a hot tub? Yep. I say let’s get outta here now and go jump in the hot tub. She agrees and we take off while I am still sober enough to drive. I reach down and grab her hand on the way out. We hold hands to my car and this time I do open the door for her.

We get to my house and I pour a couple glasses of wine. She throws on a t shirt of mine and gets down to her panties. We jump in and start relaxing. After a while she just keeps talking and talking and I am sitting there just looking at how fucking sexy she is. I don’t hear a word she is saying. I grab her and pull her over to me mid sentence and we start making out. After a while I push her away and she is just sitting there kinda in awe. It was hilarious. I then go so what were you talking about. She responds with I have no idea.

Long story short the date ended about 3:00 PM the next afternoon. There is no doubt it is the best date I have had since I have been single. There is no doubt I am more attracted to this girl than any girl I have met this entire year.

Chance Favors The Prepared Mind

Yeah that is right deal with it.

The more I learn the more I revert back to AFC ways. But the funny thing is I can do it. I can do what AFC’s do and get away with it. I know that sounds fucked up. But the thing is I have so many things squared away that allow me to succeed. I have mastered all the little things that make someone awesome at this game.

So when I go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful she is well even though she heard that a billion times in the last 24 hours coming from me it sounds genuine. I have perfected myself and therefore what I utter is acceptable. I can be 100% direct and she will go along with it. She is flattered even though she has heard the same line this evening.

I can’t help but laugh at what I am writing. It goes away from everything that you would believe to be correct. The statement I am currently making is so full of falsities. How could I possibly be uttering these words.

That is what is so badass about this game. It is a circle. Once you complete it you realize so many things. What seems impossible in the beginning you realize is actually easy. What seems unfathomable in the beginning is a cinch in the end.

I started writing this a few days ago and I guess become either disinterested in finishing it or got busy. I am going to go ahead and guess it was the former since I can’t imagine what I got busy doing. So I just opened this up and read it. On the off chance of not sounding cocky I will go ahead and write what I really think this is. I think I can be AFC because I have elevated myself to a much higher level than when I first started this journey. So when I make a statement like you are beautiful, or just run direct game. I am able to get away with it because what it really is, is that she needs to hear such things from me. See to her I am a higher level than she is. So I actually have no choice but to make her feel comfortable and that is why I can pull this off.