One thing that I think has been helping me lately with girls is adding them to myspace. So over text I will open a previous number close and at some early point ask if they have myspace. Most of the time they do and I will wait a few hours and add them.
I absolutely love doing this and highly recommend it. The reasons are simple but I will explain my case anyways.
For one I get to see them again (My memory is usually a little hazy from the drunken night before). I can rattle through their page, glance at some pictures, read a little about them, etc etc. But it is a two way street here. She can do the same thing. So before you go and take my advice understand you need a good myspace page. You should have some good pictures of yourself, ones with you and your friends, and ones with you and girls. This is very important. You need to paint a good picture of yourself. I don’t have the best page but mine is good enough.
Secondly psychologically speaking I think this does something to her head. I think she says ahh alright I am friends with this guy. I have gone to his page and learned a little about him. So right off the bat I think she feels a little more comfortable with you. There may be an added sense of security, possible added attraction, and her feeling closer to you.
I will continue to do this in the future. I feel pretty strongly about it and can’t believe I didn’t do it sooner.