Holy Shit!
I have met my match. This girl is just like me. It is as if she is running reverse game on me.
Statements she has made:
I am trying really hard not to like you.
I have no interest in a relationship.
WHAT!!!!!!
Who taught you?
This girl knows how to make a guy chase her. She is a pro at it. I have to struggle not to fall into her little trap. And I must say it is extremely difficult. Not because she is running some type of game, but just because she is so badass.
I am so glad I hung out with her last night. I learned so much more about this girl that I needed to know. I called her out on several things.
I told her we were going to butt heads because we were just alike. I told her she had walls up to protect herself. I told her I would love to know the real her. She didn’t want to hear any of this. She almost curled up into a little ball she was so shy about these statements. Well really just the one about the walls.
She is so freaking stubborn. I mean seriously turn me into a girl and I am her. It is uncanny. I can see it now. She and I will have the most knock out drag you through the mud arguments. I can see this girl throwing punches. I don’t know why but I almost look forward to our future fights.
She is just as passive as I am. She will try to set up future meetings when we are hanging out. But if she is just by herself the chance of her calling me up wanting to hang out is very slim. I am going to have to force myself to be the aggressor with this girl. I just need to make sure to space the days out so I don’t look too needy. She wants me to be needy. She wants me to chase. She is used to it. It is all she knows.
I wish I could figure out how to make her chase. But with her current mindset of not wanting to get close to anyone I don’t see that happening for a while. I have to figure out how to put some cracks in her walls or knock a few down. Then I can see her chasing. Her entire mindset and thought process will surely change.
Only time will bring this. And until then I will enjoy the pursuit.
When I first got into game I told myself I wanted to be single for a year. And I have done that this entire year. In fact I haven’t even found anyone worthy of settling down with so it was actually pretty easy.
I like this one…