Something happened this weekend that has taken at least a year. I spent both Friday and Saturday night with the same girl. We will call this girl HB:ToughCookie. This is something I purposely avoided the entire year. The weekend is meant for Sarging and meeting new women.
Friday night I had intended on going out with the boys but she called and invited me to her friend’s Birthday party. I figured we would end up together at the end of the night anyways but I wanted to join her. Not to mention very little seemed to be going on Friday night. It was a pretty easy choice. We ended up at Finn and it was probably the worst I had ever seen it. So I made the right choice.
I had only nailed this girl one time before and I must say it was only so-so. I was a little worried she was bad in bed and possibly prude at that. I’m not saying I am a great lover or anything in fact that first time was equally my fault for the overall performance. It was lacking from both parties. I knew I needed to nail this girl again and it needed to be good. The first time we were both completely sober and I think inhibitions were to blame. This night we were both pretty much wasted. Can you say Fuck Fest 2008?? Yeah it was pretty badass (Thank God). Be afraid to use my pool table.
Saturday Night we have somewhat of a low key evening. Lion invites us to join him and his girl. Picture Perfect and some girl Lion’s girl was hooking him up with were joining us as well. We head over and the evening is pretty boring. I find myself complaining a shit load when we are at the Londoner. Before we leave Lion’s place though something sort of flattering happens. Two of the girls there both compliment HBToughCookie. Ohh your hair is so nice. You are so beautiful. Both of the girls say this at different times. It’s kind of a good feeling I must say.
My boredom at the Londoner quickly leads to me turning into major asshole. There was some girl who was part of our group. I think she was Filipino and had a very nice body. Her face was marginal but the body was superb. Anyways so she is sitting at this table with everyone else. I walk up and sit directly across from her. I instantly neg her on her diamonds. Bam the entire group is just gawking at me now. But I don’t stop. I continue on and on and on. I mean yeah it was a little over the top and I apologized to Lion and his girl later about it. I don’t know why I did it. I mean to complete strangers it is one thing. But to someone that is part of the group you are with…well that is just poor etiquette.
I have noticed I do this a lot lately. For the most part it is harmless and with strangers at a bar that I will never see again. I am trying to figure out why I turn into asshole me though. Sure the booze play a part and probably boredom. Every time I do it I feel bad the next day. It is as if I lose some of my conscience when I am drunk.
We eventually take a cab home and bam just as predicted we get into a fight. This one was no where near as bad as the one I ended up sleeping in my car. But to make a long story short she leaves at around 2:00 AM. I somehow pissed her off. I believe it came when she asked me to go get her bag out of her car. And I said you should blow me first. There is a point where you can be beta. This is one of those times. Think about it. I got get the bag from the car. I come back inside and she changes. We get into bed. Ummm yeah self explanatory. Instead I act like a dick and she leaves. DUMB!!!