So I have been seeing HBTC for a while now. Last weekend I was thinking man am I setting myself up for a disaster with this relationship. I look around at everyone I know and how they handle themselves in the relationship they are in.

Are they wearing the pants? Or is she?

Now I wasn’t worried about whether I was wearing the pants or not. I was just worried about whether they were pulled up or not. Looking back most of my relationships have consisted of the girl pretty much bowing down to whatever I say. So it is very easy for me to assess that I like to be in control and I like my girl to be very passive.

With HBTC things were quickly shaping up to be completely different than this. So much so in fact that she had even read me like a book. I had heard her mention how I am used to having girls give in to whatever I say blah blah blah. She was right. She said how she wasn’t that kind of girl and that would never happen. Once again she is probably right. And this is one of the reasons I find myself liking this girl.

But what if things continued like this. Will the relationship just suck down the road? Will she walk all over me? Will she control our time together? Will she tell me what to do, how to do it, when to do it, who I can hang out with?

So all of this was rambling through my head last weekend when I was on the way to her house. How can I change this. How can I make certain that things start progressing the way I want them to so I don’t get thrown into this situation. This is the hardest thing to change in a relationship. Once you are here good luck getting out.

So it can be as simple as this. I am sitting in a chair at her counter. She is ohh about 5 feet away from me. Anytime I tell this girl to do something she goes: Don’t tell me what to do. I mean if I said Breathe she would hold her breath.

I say: Come here and give me a kiss.

HBTC: Don’t tell me what to do.

I then say in a stronger tone: Get over here and give me a little kiss.

Now this time she realizes this isn’t a game. I am being serious. I am the man and she will do as I say. Hahahahhah I don’t know any other way to word that. I know that sounds freaking insane but well…

The point is she comes over to me and kisses me. She then mentions something very relevant to this topic and I wish I knew the exact wording. But it was definitely something along the lines of I HATE YOU.

She liked that I had done that. She liked that I put her in her place. And she goes on to mention that she likes that about me. How most guys just do whatever she says. How most guys bend over backwards for her. How most guys don’t last long with her because they don’t have a spine.

Even before this things were going pretty freaking good. But since then it just seems different. I can’t say for sure it was because of this. I don’t really know. But it is like I gained a little more control.

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