I have been thinking about this lately but just haven’t gotten around to writing anything about it. I remember when I first got into this and wanted to become a PUA. It wasn’t that I wanted to actually be a Pick Up Artist. I just wanted to break out of my shell and figure out how to meet women. Little did I know this “GAME” is really about so much more than just meeting women. Most who start out never get to see what this is really all about.

If you look around at our society so many people lack it. Most people just figure out how to skate by never really seeing their true potential. I will stop right there on that subject and get back to this one. Since we know most people lack implementation skills in regular everyday life isn’t it safe to say that most people who join the community will also lack this same skill. The answer is unfortunately YES which really sucks because it doesn’t have to be.

I just don’t understand how something like meeting women can be so important to you but then you just crawl up into a little ball and walk away. It’s like the second you realize you have to work at it and put in some effort you just quit. Fuck Dude nothing is easy. This path is certainly not easy I can tell you that. If you aren’t going to invest some time and energy…wait scratch that…if you aren’t going to devote yourself to this then just quit now. You are wasting your time.

But I promise you if you stick with it your life will change. It’s not even about meeting women anymore. It is about keeping them. It is about improving yourself to such a high level that they would be idiots to walk away from you.

Just imagine hearing this from a girl that you gamed: YOU RUINED ME FOR ALL OTHER GUYS!!!

Yes I have managed to turn some of my old FB’s or whatever you want to call them into Friends. Imagine that the guy who never had a girl who was just a friend now has some. How Ironic. Of course I banged them all before so I don’t think that counts in the purest sense.

This post could have been short and sweet but I feel like I am missing something. There must be something else I can mention for this subject. I guess I could tell you how to implement the knowledge and skills you are going to learn. I just don’t think that would really be fair though. I think if you get out there and figure most of this stuff out on your own you will be better off. I am not saying you can’t learn from others or even have someone teach you. Hell I love watching other people in action. It is the best way to learn for me. I just don’t think another speech on how to do this or that is what you need right now.

You need to get out there and TRY!

Grab some openers, chick bait, conversation topics and get out there. Get shot down a few times. Ask for a number. Escalate. Kino. Figure out what all this shit is and how to implement it in the field. You might be scared at first but it gets easier over time. Eventually you won’t think anymore it will just come natural. And then you will figure out exactly what that word means. Natural.

I promise the girls won’t bite…well…

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